About family issue with husband and his behaviour

Feb 18, 2026 70 views 2 answers
Family Law
Anonymous
Feb 18, 2026
Family Law
► Mai kanpur uttar Pradesh se hu. Meri shadi 23 November 2023 ko hindu Ritual k according hui thi shadi k baad pahle to husband ki badhe Bhai ki wife pareshan krti thi aise kuch mahine chla or hum 14 January 2024 ko apne maiyke kanpur aa gye. Fr humne husband ko bataya tumhari bhabhi bhut pareshan karti h isliye hum nhi aayenge phle to husband nhi mana par baad mai Maan gye or hume 24 February 2024 ko lene aa gye fr ghar k paise nhi dete the husband to aise krte hum 13 September 2024 ko fr apne maiyke kanpur aa gye fr hum 22 may 2025 ko gye shuru mai kuch sudhar raha par fr Wahi ghar k log husband ko badhkate jisse hume taunting krte hume husband free mai aai ho free mai chaiye tumko ka dialogue marte or hum fr hum apne maikae kanpur aa gye . Husband ne November ko lawyer k through notice bheja agar nhi aaye to section 9 case file krenge problem ye h ki humne kaha aane ko but alag room lene ko sasural me nhi rhne ko to abi tk kuch nhi bata rhe h nh hi hume ghar khrach de rhe h please help me 🙏
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Anik
Feb 20, 2026

Dear client,

Aapki shaadi Hindu riwaaz ke hisaab se hui hai, isliye aap par Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 lagu hota hai. Aapke husband ne jo Section 9 ka notice bheja hai, wo Restitution of Conjugal Rights ka hota hai. Iska matlab hota hai ki wo court se kahenge ki wife bina wajah unke saath nahi reh rahi.

Lekin agar aap sasural me mental harassment, taunting, paise na dena, aur family ke pressure ki wajah se wahan se aayi hain, to ye “reasonable cause” maana ja sakta hai. Court zabardasti aapko torture wale mahaul me rehne ko nahi kahegi.

Aapne jo condition rakhi ki alag room ya alag rehna chahte hain, wo galat nahi hai. Agar joint family me problem ho rahi hai, to wife ko safe aur respectful environment milna zaroori hai. Husband ka farz hai ki wo aapko maintenance (ghar kharch) de. Agar wo paise nahi de rahe, to aap:

  1. Section 144 BNSS  ke under maintenance ke liye case file kar sakti hain.
  2. Domestic Violence Act ke under complaint kar sakti hain – isme protection aur maintenance dono mil sakta hai.
  3. Agar aap sach me saath rehna chahti hain par alag ghar me, to court me apni condition rakh sakti hain.

Aap Kanpur me hi kisi achhe family lawyer se milkar reply bheje notice ka. Notice ka jawab dena zaroori hota hai, ignore mat kijiye.

Sabse important baat – aapka kharch dena husband ki zimmedari hai, chahe aap alag reh rahi ho agar wajah sahi hai.

If you have any query please feel free to contact us.

Feb 20, 2026

Dear Madam,

 

Do NOT refuse to live with your husband directly.

Instead say clearly:

"I am ready to live with my husband, but not in a hostile environment. I request separate accommodation."

This protects you from Section 9 case.

If he files Section 9:
You can defend and also file:

Domestic Violence case

Maintenance case

 

 

Evidence You Should Collect

Keep:

 

Any WhatsApp chats

Audio recordings (if any)

Notice copy

Proof of no financial support

Medical records (if stress caused health issues)

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