Constantly getting blackmailed with suicide threats from my partner.

Question

► I have been in this relationship for over a year, She has a very bad temper she doesnot have a clue of what she is uttering and doing when she is angry, even tells me she should have listened to her family and regret coming into this relationship, when i cannot bear her words anymore then i tell her then lets break up if both of us are suffering then lets end this, then she threatens me with suicide. I am hopeless, its happening o regular basis , a slight disagreement leads to this, she has such a bad temper whenever i tell her to stop, she does not, not even calms down a bit. I am my parent's single child. I am clueless of what to do. I cannot bear this on regular basis, its a great mental toll on me, as i am my parent's single child , there is no one beside me who will take care of them in future. Please help me with this, what should i do, how can i stop this.

Answer 1

Dear Sir,

Choose a calm moment and say something like:

“I cannot continue in a relationship where suicide threats are used during conflicts.
If this happens again, I will inform your family or seek professional help.”

Do not argue.
Do not justify.
Just state the boundary.

If she continues → follow through.

Constantly getting blackmailed with suicide threats from my partner.

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